If you share unhappiness, then it will be halved. What a crap….

I often choose not share my unhappiness with others. There are two obvious reasons.

1) The root cause(s) of my unhappiness are from ‘me’. Unless anyone has a significant power to change ‘me’ or ‘my surroundings’, then there is no point of sharing my unhappiness. In fact, no one can change ‘me’ except ‘myself’.

2) The second reason precludes the above condition. Assuming while no one can resolve my problems except myself, asking someone to listen / resolve my problems goes beyond the realm of ‘stupidity’ (I rather say ‘get close to the realm of ‘insanity’). Why bother to tell people who have no ability to do anything about it?

Not sure what people want to gain from telling / sharing their problems with others. Does this act constitute of earning sympathy from others? Do we get such comfort from this? For me, definitely not. This is all I need from people – say nothing, stay where you are, and just watch me how I overcome problems. That’s all I am asking, nothing more or nothing less.

 

About Brendon Cho

조후혁의 개인 블로그입니다. 1994년 18살때 호주로 부모님과 함께 이민을 왔고 2002년 통계학과를 졸업 한후 통신 회사 Exetel에 2004년 사원으로 입사, 2009년 최고재무관리자 (CFO)로 임명 그리고 2010년 MGSM에서 MBA를 수료 했고 지금 내부 감사장 (Head of Veracity)로 일하고 있습니다. 현재 3명의 자녀를 둔 아빠이고 시드니에서 살고 있으며, 클래식 음악과 글쓰기를 좋아합니다.
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