There is one particular type of people (especially applicable to women) that I despise the most at a work place – the one who is incapable of doing anything by herself but somehow know how to manipulate men to do things for them. How? Simple. An average male with a normal (probably below) intelligence can be easily manipulated by this kind of woman because of she having different physical features which often men often foolishly hope that they can be accessed sometime in the future.
This is my view – if you are fallen into this category, then I would like to think about yourself for a moment. I do not know who said this but this statement isn’t universally applicable to anyone but only to a few exceptional people – “A good manager is the one who is mastering the art of getting things done through people”. This only works only if you are respected. To be respected you need to demonstrate that you can do things by yourself. If you are unable to do things by yourself but continue to delegate tasks (or pass a buck I should say?) to others will not be reflected as a good manager but only appear as a ‘piece of shit’. Doesn’t it actually make you feel bad because you are being excluded from various things? Why are you being excluded? Because you are incapable of contributing anything. Actually you are not willing to learn anything by yourself without causing a massive convenience to others. Your attitude (i.e. hopelessly depending on others because you have no idea how to do it but still falsely pretend you know what you are doing) sickens people around you. Needless to say, I am not prepared to tolerate this. (Perhaps you would call your manipulative skill as an ‘art’) It does not work on me because I am not an ordinary male with an animal instinct (i.e. believing in increasing a chance of sleeping with a female by being nice to her). Perhaps I can say this because I am married and have 2 children – I do not treat any women nicely unless I have an intention to sleep with her. Perhaps that is why I am very nice to my wife except anyone else (and I am sure this is very normal).